Mortgage Delinquency: How to Avoid It and What to Do If You’re Struggling
Christian Stover
May 13, 2025
With mortgage delinquency now a top-trending Google search, many homeowners are understandably concerned. Rising living costs, the return of student loan payments, and a slowing economy can stretch budgets thin — and no one wants to fall behind on one of life’s biggest financial obligations.
At REdepot Financial, we believe knowledge is the best safeguard. Here’s what you need to know to choose a home you can truly afford — and what to do if you find yourself unable to make a mortgage payment on time.
1. How to Choose a Home You Can Afford
Buying a home is exciting, but it’s essential to balance your dreams with your budget. Here are key tips:
Follow the 28/36 Rule
Ideally, your monthly mortgage payment should be no more than 28% of your gross monthly income, and your total monthly debt (including mortgage, credit cards, car loans, etc.) should stay under 36%.
Budget Beyond the Mortgage
Remember, your costs don’t stop at the mortgage — factor in property taxes, homeowners insurance, utilities, maintenance, and emergency repairs.
Build in a Cushion
Leave room in your budget for life’s surprises. Just because a lender approves you for a certain amount doesn’t mean you should max it out.
Avoid Being “House Poor”
Focus on long-term comfort, not just what you qualify for today. Being “house poor” means all your income goes to your home, leaving little for savings, retirement, or even everyday living.
2. What Are Your Options If You Can’t Pay On Time?
Life happens — a job loss, medical emergency, or unexpected expense can disrupt even the best-laid plans. If you think you’ll miss a mortgage payment, here’s what you should do:
Contact Your Lender Immediately
Many homeowners delay out of fear or embarrassment, but lenders often have programs to help — the earlier you reach out, the more options you’ll have.
Explore Loan Modification or Forbearance
Depending on your situation, your lender may offer to temporarily reduce or pause payments (forbearance) or adjust your loan terms (modification) to make things more manageable.
Look Into Refinancing
If you’re struggling because of high rates, refinancing to a lower rate (if eligible) could reduce your monthly burden.
Consider Selling or Renting
If your situation seems long-term, selling the home or renting it out may help you avoid foreclosure and protect your credit.
Seek Professional Guidance
Don’t navigate this alone — mortgage professionals like the team at REdepot Financial can help you explore solutions tailored to your situation.
Final Thoughts
Buying a home is a major milestone — but staying in a home you can comfortably afford is even more important. With careful budgeting and proactive action, you can protect your financial health, even during uncertain times.
If you’re ready to explore home loan options or need advice on your current mortgage, give us a call. We’re here to help you make confident, informed decisions every step of the way.